Our hearts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss.  Judy was my older sister and we had many good times together.  We lived together, grew together, laughed together, cried together, and so many other things that made up our daily lives together.  I am thankful for the family that she and Bruce built together.  Four children and many, many grandchildren?  There is always a sting to death, even in the cases where we see it is coming.  I Corinthians 15:26 states that "The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death."  The reason for the sting is that death is an enemy.  God is a God of life and light and love.  II Corinthians 1:3 and 4 states what I feel in my heart for you at this time:  "Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;  Who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God."  May your hearts be comforted at this time by God Himself, and by the promises He has given us in His Word.  I love you all dearly and am thankful that you have each other and many family and friends to help you through this difficult time.  God bless you all.